Katherine Feeney

Katherine Feeney

Katherine Feeney heads the urban affairs desk for brisbanetimes.com.au. She is also one of Australia’s leading commentators on sex, love, dating and relationships via her popular blog CityKat.

Cloud catastrophe

What to do with sexts from your ex

Katherine Feeney "Texts From Your Ex" may be a popular Instagram account but what should you do when a new partner discovers them?

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Are you game enough to go #nofilter?

Katherine Feeney Those who fake selfies of their sexual assets to the point of unreality have a tiger by the tail.

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Is not watching the birth man's biggest mistake?

Katherine Feeney "It would be like watching my favourite pub burning down," I guy I know likes to say. "That end's all about pleasure, not business – and I'd like to think the only thing pushing its way around...

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When menopause happens to modern couples

Katherine Feeney 'The end' is not so much actually that. In some ways, it is a new beginning.


Katherine Feeney's guide to living with a love guru

Katherine Feeney How do you live with a lover who's had far more sex than you? Will you forever be in the backseat?

The trust test

Dealing with a lover scarred by cheating

Former California governor Arnold Schwarzenegger and Maria Shriver's marriage crumbled after allegations he cheated.

Katherine Feeney Once cut, are lovers scorned forever scarred?

Can passion last the distance of lifelong love?

Hurry-honey: the pace of passion changes over the course of a relationship.

Katherine Feeney Love in middle age and older might be different to that of the young, but means that people love one another as they are.

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New world

What's 'The One' when you have 'the many' on Tinder?

'The many' on Tinder.

Katherine Feeney Couples have been able to find love for centuries without dating apps. Is technology a better matchmaker or does it merely expand choices?

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What happens when your partner loses their job?

The loss of employment can put a strain on your relationship.

Katherine Feeney Will it ruin your relationship? Make or break your marriage? And what can be done to get through it?

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Evolution of the He-Man

Have we left 'manliness' behind?

Is this the age when hubby gets a headache, and we're all OK with that?

Katherine Feeney If it’s true that we’re leaving manliness behind, does that mean men can look forward to feminised sex lives?

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Is female ejaculation the new black?

New black: Will female ejaculation become the next sexual fashion statement?

Katherine Feeney If you're a woman, and you don't ejaculate, what does that say about you?

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Why do people think that a baby will save a sinking relationship?

Not valued: Can a baby save a sinking relationship?

Katherine Feeney It seems to be the dumbest thing you could do ...

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The loves of our life


Katherine Feeney Should we keep looking for the love of our lives, or is it time to evolve our ambitions?

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The reality of growing old together

Wrinkles rock: Growing old together.

Katherine Feeney How do couples adjust to ageing, when body consciousness is all around?

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More eye contact will improve your sex life

Here's looking at you: Go on, give it a go. Make more eye contact.

Katherine Feeney Good sex is about connection, and what better connection than through the windows to your lover's soul?

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Why isn't there a female equivalent of a strip club?


Katherine Feeney "I don’t believe women have really learned how to step-off the moral high-ground, and I’m not sure men would know what to do if they did."

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Do women stop men from parenting?

Isn't parenthood supposed to be a shared experience?

Katherine Feeney Some men feel as though they’ve been shut out of the parenting experience by women who are ;overly protective of a domain they believe is their own, exclusively.

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Are you relying on a 'sex crutch'?

Do you have a standard routine when it comes to sex?

Katherine Feeney Taking short cuts in the sack can be a slippery slope.

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When your partner sends you to the doghouse, should they throw you a bone?


Katherine Feeney “How can you be in the doghouse?” His question was matched with an incredulous expression. “Can’t you just offer him sex?”

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What would you do if your partner asked you to get 'fixed'?

Katherine Feeney "Babe, I'm going to make you an appointment, OK? It won't take long – I can come with you if you like?"

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