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This is the last blog I intend to ever write, unmarried

Katherine Feeney Amidst all the joy of getting married, there will be hurt, writes Katherine Feeney.

Fantasies fulfilled, one night at a time

Sex Myths -busted.

Kathernine Feeney “One-night stands are the best way to live out your sexual fantasies.”

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What we learn from our parents' relationship

modern family

Katherine Feeney Did your parents have a happy marriage? If they didn't, are you screwed? Too many of us are beginning on the backfoot, and I wonder, what hope is there, if any?

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New year, new boobs


Katherine Feeney A new year, a new you - but where do you draw the line? And should we judge the choices of others?

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What can gay men teach straight people about sex?

WELLINGTON, NEW ZEALAND - AUGUST 19:  Two Lego men decorate the top of Paul McCarthy and Trent Kandler's wedding cake prior to the reception at Martin Bosley's on August 19, 2013 in Wellington, New Zealand. Australian gay couple Paul McCarthy and Trent Kandler were flown to Wellington by Tourism New Zealand in a promotion to highlight to Australians that same-sex marriage is legal in New Zealand.  (Photo by Hagen Hopkins/Getty Images)

Katherine Feeney Here’s what my friends have taught me:

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Family values

'Til marriage do us part


Katherine Feeney Tony Abbott says his daughters do not plan to leave the family fold until they are married. Clearly, the decision relates to the family's proud Catholic values.

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Partnered up and longing for the single life


Katherine Feeney What happens when you find yourself wishing you were single again?

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Putting the me before the we

Wedding rings

Katherine Feeney If you're looking for The One, you need to take care of No 1.

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Is your mind closed to an open relationship?

Old Fatihful: Penguins mate for life - what about humans?

Katherine Feeney Non-monogamy: A trendy phase to pass, or something more substantial?

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Physical instruction

Going from good to great by mating with your mate

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Katherine Feeney Would you enlist a friend to improve your sexual technique?

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Public smooching

Time to kiss off the PDA dismay?

Campbell and Lisa Newman's displays of affection have caught the attention of Queenslanders.

Katherine Feeney Queenslanders aren't too happy about affection shown in public... especially when it's by politicians.

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Mind the gap: finding the perfect age difference

Minding the gap ... does age difference matter?

Katherine Feeney Mind the gap: Finding the perfect age difference.

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No sex is no sin

generic sex

Katherine Feeney “I think it’s good, sometimes, that we go without sex.”

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A bride by any other name ...

Union of choice

Katherine Feeney What's in a name?

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City Kat

The CityKat year in review

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Katherine Feeney Here we are again. Six years of sex, love, dating and relationships. Not bad team. Not bad at all. And my, haven’t we done a lot this year? Following is a re-cap, including my favourite ...

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City Kat

The numbers game


Katherine Feeney Inevitably, you have that conversation.

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Loving to dance and dancing to love

Katherine Feeney CityKat.

Katherine Feeney Many Australian women love to dance. Look at any given wedding, birthday, school-fundraising dinner, Dancing with the Stars demographic break-down chart or 'dread girls night out' scenario ...

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The last taboo

Getting to the bottom of the last great taboo

Katherine Feeney Getting to the bottom of the last great taboo

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Grindr it ain't: Mixed messages haunt Blendr

Cat Lynch Grindr it ain't: Mixed messages haunt Blendr

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Is divorce ruining relationships?

Katherine Feeney Divorce is too easy and it's changing how we conceptualise relationships.

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