Katherine Feeney

Smart, passionately participatory and nakedly truthful, the CityKat blog with Katherine Feeney is where sex isn’t taboo, it’s a talking point. With a mind open to every modern love, seduction and relationships dilemma you care to confess, join Kat and her brazen band of commenters every Wednesday and Friday for one of the most explicitly enticing conversations on the web.
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Is female ejaculation the new black?

Katherine Feeney   If you're a woman, and you don't ejaculate, what does that say about you?

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The loves of our life


Katherine Feeney   Should we keep looking for the love of our lives, or is it time to evolve our ambitions?

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The reality of growing old together

Wrinkles rock: Growing old together.

Katherine Feeney   How do couples adjust to ageing, when body consciousness is all around?

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More eye contact will improve your sex life

Here's looking at you: Go on, give it a go. Make more eye contact.

Katherine Feeney   Good sex is about connection, and what better connection than through the windows to your lover's soul?


Why isn't there a female equivalent of a strip club?


Katherine Feeney   "I don’t believe women have really learned how to step-off the moral high-ground, and I’m not sure men would know what to do if they did."

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Do women stop men from parenting?

Isn't parenthood supposed to be a shared experience?

Katherine Feeney   Some men feel as though they’ve been shut out of the parenting experience by women who are ;overly protective of a domain they believe is their own, exclusively.

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Are you relying on a 'sex crutch'?

Do you have a standard routine when it comes to sex?

Katherine Feeney   Taking short cuts in the sack can be a slippery slope.


When your partner sends you to the doghouse, should they throw you a bone?


Katherine Feeney   “How can you be in the doghouse?” His question was matched with an incredulous expression. “Can’t you just offer him sex?”


What would you do if your partner asked you to get 'fixed'?


Katherine Feeney   "Babe, I'm going to make you an appointment, OK? It won't take long – I can come with you if you like?"

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How do you say goodbye for the last time?


Katherine Feeney   Recent news from a dear friend brought home the reality of live and death and love.


Is a smack and a spank the same thing?

Perhaps we should replace the word spanking with smacking – a small adjustment which makes the world of difference in the Australian vernacular.

Katherine Feeney   New York writer Jillian Keenan believes we shouldn't spank kids because "spanking is inherently sexual".

Just because you can have sex with multiple people in one day, should you?

Is greater access to sex a turn off.

Getting laid seems to be a lot easier these days but more sex comes with a catch, we’re shagging ourselves stupid.

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Settling for second best in love

Making do: is settling in love bad?

Katherine Feeney   How would you feel if you found out you were someone's second choice?

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Are we eating our way out of sexual dissatisfaction?


Katherine Feeney   Stop salivating over that cooking show. You’re only doing it because your love life is starved of sensuality.


Do you consider yourself 'grown-up'?

grown up

Katherine Feeney   Rites of passage used to be well defined. You were an infant, then a child, then a teenager, then an adult. Now, you can easily pass into the awkward category of ‘youth’, with all its ambiguity, only to one day find out you’ve wound up an ‘adult’, with all its expectations.