Katherine Feeney

Smart, passionately participatory and nakedly truthful, the CityKat blog with Katherine Feeney is where sex isn’t taboo, it’s a talking point. With a mind open to every modern love, seduction and relationships dilemma you care to confess, join Kat and her brazen band of commenters every Wednesday and Friday for one of the most explicitly enticing conversations on the web.
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Man up and ditch the three-day rule, gents

Katherine Feeney Waiting three days to contact your date is juvenile and offensive.

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When cute couple names get nasty

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Katherine Feeney Are you really okay with being someone's bitch?

Identifying the warning signs

Reading signs:How can you tell where your relationship is headed?

Katherine Feeney “I knew it was over because every time we had sex, I was super, super careful about not getting her pregnant.”

Use-by for the XY

All alone? Men long for love too.

Katherine Feeney Do single men have a use-by date?

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Extradyadic sex - cheating or just fantasising?


Katherine Feeney Is thinking about someone else while you're having sex cheating?

Why make up relationship problems?

Covering up: why we're afraid to reveal ourselves.

Katherine Feeney Lying there, listening to his breathing, she is checking to see that he’s still asleep. Slowly, carefully, she slides out from underneath tangled sheets which belie the pleasures of the night ..

Must love dogs, walks on the beach, have herpes

Dating website

Katherine Feeney Are dating websites for people with STIs a high-tech solution to an awkward issue?

Struggle, service, courage and sacrifice

giving love

Katherine Feeney “Struggle, service, courage and sacrifice,” are the values of Easter according to the spiritual leader of Australia’s 3.5 million Anglicans, Phillip Aspinall.

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Science of sexual misperception

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Katherine Feeney “Our results strongly support the hypothesis that men possess a sexual overperception bias.”

Diamonds are a material girl's best friend

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Katherine Feeney Does the size of the diamond on the engagement ring really matter?

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Mind the gap: finding the perfect age difference

Minding the gap ... does age difference matter?

Katherine Feeney Mind the gap: Finding the perfect age difference.

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No sex is no sin

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Katherine Feeney “I think it’s good, sometimes, that we go without sex.”


Big problems with big packages

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Katherine Feeney Big packages can cause some big problems.


A bride by any other name ...

Union of choice

Katherine Feeney What's in a name?


Don't let the young'ns have all the sexting fun

Sexting isn't reserved for young people with new phones.

Katherine Feeney It's time the couples who never had access to smart phones when they met to get on the sexting bandwagon.


Is compatibility in the stars or your gut?

Compatibility is a prized commodity in the dating world.

Katherine Feeney Is compatability in the stars or your gut?


Just how important is the proposal?

Sink or swim ... can a proposal affect a marriage, long-term?

Katherine Feeney Just how important is the proposal?


Do the beautiful people get a free ride?


Katherine Feeney Do you put up with more crap the hotter your partner is?


Making meaning, making love


Katherine Feeney So some people prefer to think of sex as ‘lovemaking’. For others, sex is ‘just sex’. I like to think of sex as both, and – kookily – even as an activity that ...


Naughty feminists are giving men more sex and worse jobs ... apparently

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Katherine Feeney Naughty feminists are giving men more sex and worse jobs ... apparently.