Citykat on Sex

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What would you do if you found out your partner had a criminal past?

Katherine Feeney Some people find themselves in relationships with people who have done terrible things, and it is the discovery of this horror that forces them to make a decision: should they stay, or should they...

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Saying 'I don't' to 'I do': The case for abolishing the Marriage Act

Wedding rings

Katherine Feeney They say the time for marriage reform is now. But how about the idea that we should we just abolish the Marriage Act altogether?

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Mistress-keeping - an ancient right, or modern wrong?

affair

Katherine Feeney One of the most common complaints I have received over the seven years I've been writing this blog is that sex, after a while, dies.

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Does birth order influence relationship success?

Siblings

Katherine Feeney Survey suggests those born first stand a better chance of landing a loving, long-term relationship than their siblings.

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Are you a better lover if you abstain from masturbation?

sex

Katherine Feeney Perhaps there’s merit to this seemingly mad idea that your bedroom performance may be significantly improved were you to avoid any self-inflicted pleasure-making.

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How do you keep your sex life alive when kids come along?

Intimate young couple in a bed

Katherine Feeney Shagging doesn't stop once kids arrive on the scene. It just gets a lot more challenging.

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Exercising everything but restraint

Mistresses, married women and early-morning workouts

boot

Katherine Feeney People haven't stopped having affairs, they're just having them first thing in the morning at the gym or at boot camp.

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Making sex fun again

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Katherine Feeney "I can't figure out why our sex has become so, well, boring."

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Is football ruining your relationship?

couple of american supporter at the stadium embracing

Katherine Feeney Sometimes the very things that bring us together, tear us apart, writes Katherine Feeney.

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Saying yes to the female orgasm

The female orgasm: just say

Katherine Feeney There's nothing quite like the bliss of the big O, writes Katherine Feeney.

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This is the last blog I intend to ever write, unmarried

Celebrating our commitment to love another: it is a gift that should be given to everyone.

Katherine Feeney Amidst all the joy of getting married, there will be hurt, writes Katherine Feeney.

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Fantasies fulfilled, one night at a time

Sex Myths -busted.

Kathernine Feeney “One-night stands are the best way to live out your sexual fantasies.”

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What we learn from our parents' relationship

modern family

Katherine Feeney Did your parents have a happy marriage? If they didn't, are you screwed? Too many of us are beginning on the backfoot, and I wonder, what hope is there, if any?

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Kiss goodbye: Have we forgotten how great a pash can be?

20 Strangers Kiss

Katherine Feeney Somewhere between watching 20 strangers kissing for the first time, and writing The Kiss into my scarily-soon-to-be wedding ceremony, I realised something: We don’t give the kiss enough lip service.

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Why are single men so scared of love?

man and heartbreak

Katherine Feeney When it comes to finding someone to love, why are we hiding behind our machines? And is this cowardly, or clever? Have we evolved, or devolved, socially speaking?

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Face facts: a prenup is commonsense

Marriage

Katherine Feeney Binding financial agreements should be made a mandatory aspect of monogamy.

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Hook-ups and stuff-ups

romance

Katherine Feeney What stage in a relationship is the best one for sex – pre-dating, post-dating or only after marriage?

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New year, new boobs

Breasts.

Katherine Feeney A new year, a new you - but where do you draw the line? And should we judge the choices of others?

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The ten-box conundrum

Couple in bed

Katherine Feeney When it comes to love, should anything less than ticking all the boxes suffice?

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How CityKat and its glorious contributors saw 2013

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Katherine Feeney Reviewing year seven of the CityKat blog.

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