Citykat on Sex

CityKat

This is the last blog I intend to ever write, unmarried

Katherine Feeney Amidst all the joy of getting married, there will be hurt, writes Katherine Feeney.

Fantasies fulfilled, one night at a time

Sex Myths -busted.

Kathernine Feeney “One-night stands are the best way to live out your sexual fantasies.”

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CityKat

What we learn from our parents' relationship

modern family

Katherine Feeney Did your parents have a happy marriage? If they didn't, are you screwed? Too many of us are beginning on the backfoot, and I wonder, what hope is there, if any?

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Kiss goodbye: Have we forgotten how great a pash can be?

20 Strangers Kiss

Katherine Feeney Somewhere between watching 20 strangers kissing for the first time, and writing The Kiss into my scarily-soon-to-be wedding ceremony, I realised something: We don’t give the kiss enough lip service.

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Why are single men so scared of love?

man and heartbreak

Katherine Feeney When it comes to finding someone to love, why are we hiding behind our machines? And is this cowardly, or clever? Have we evolved, or devolved, socially speaking?

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City Kat

Face facts: a prenup is commonsense

Marriage

Katherine Feeney Binding financial agreements should be made a mandatory aspect of monogamy.

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Hook-ups and stuff-ups

romance

Katherine Feeney What stage in a relationship is the best one for sex – pre-dating, post-dating or only after marriage?

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New year, new boobs

Breasts.

Katherine Feeney A new year, a new you - but where do you draw the line? And should we judge the choices of others?

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The ten-box conundrum

Couple in bed

Katherine Feeney When it comes to love, should anything less than ticking all the boxes suffice?

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How CityKat and its glorious contributors saw 2013

City Kat

Katherine Feeney Reviewing year seven of the CityKat blog.

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'I think he enjoyed sex better with his ex'

three

Katherine Feeney A heart to heart with a friend brought out the myriad insecurities that many women face.

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When you can't talk to the opposite sex without booze

drink

Katherine Feeney What are the pitfalls of picking up pissed? And will drunk daters ever really find love?

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Relocating relationships

Are you in the move for love?

luggage

Katherine Feeney How long should you be with someone before you pack up and move for them?

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City Kat

Why don't we talk about sex any more?

sex

Katherine Feeney You trust someone enough to share your life with them ... but the more you get to know them, the less intimate you become.

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The 'Penis beaker'

Sex isn’t a dirty thing

beaker

Katherine Feeney So why would a husband keep a ‘‘penis beaker’’ on his bedside table with which to wash his johnson post-coitus?

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Can sanctioned affairs improve a marriage?

Affair

Katherine Feeney Not quite swinging, not quite cheating. Sanctioned affairs have emerged as a way of ensuring the longevity of a marriage while essentially rewriting the rules.

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CityKat

What can gay men teach straight people about sex?

WELLINGTON, NEW ZEALAND - AUGUST 19:  Two Lego men decorate the top of Paul McCarthy and Trent Kandler's wedding cake prior to the reception at Martin Bosley's on August 19, 2013 in Wellington, New Zealand. Australian gay couple Paul McCarthy and Trent Kandler were flown to Wellington by Tourism New Zealand in a promotion to highlight to Australians that same-sex marriage is legal in New Zealand.  (Photo by Hagen Hopkins/Getty Images)

Katherine Feeney Here’s what my friends have taught me:

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Does the school you went to affect your adult love life?

school

Katherine Feeney Could single-sex private-schooling set you back severely?

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Sex debate

Getting to the root of our sexual taboos

dolphin

Katherine Feeney “Prostitution, Polygamy, Incest and Bestiality. I would argue that all of them should be legal.”

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Male circumcision a cutting issue for new parents

Mum and baby.

Katherine Feeney Would a wife ever buy her husband a circumcision in return for a new pair of breasts?

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